93-year-old St. Joseph dancer proves life is meant to be enjoyed

ST. JOSEPH, Mo. (KQTV)-- At 93 years old, Marji Wright isn’t slowing down anytime soon. She loves staying active — whether that’s dancing, tending to her vegetable garden or just taking walks outside. 

In fact, dancing became a big part of her life right before she met the love of her life, her second husband. 

“We used to go twice a week because they had one at the senior center, and actually, we were honored with a picture; they took our picture and put it on the city lake, some kind of magazine,” Wright said.  

After her husband passed away two years ago, Wright knew she needed something to lift her spirits.  

Sitting at home alone, she said, became too difficult. So, she returned to the dance floor.  

“Every chance I can, once a week now. We used to come twice a week. It's fun, and it gets your mind off problems, I guess,” Wright said. 

Wright grew up on a farm where life was pretty isolated, and dancing wasn’t something she experienced much as a child.  

Even in high school, there weren’t many opportunities because she lived in a small town. 

She described herself as shy, but once she gets around people, her caring personality shines through. 

“I really care about people. I pray when I can for the people if they are sick or need help and try to encourage them during tough times,” Wright added.  

Her close friend and dance partner, Deborah Valencia, said Wright’s energy surprises everyone who meets her.  

“When she comes its like, 'Oh my god, there’s no way she can be 93 years old.' She is just adorable, her personality and everything. We love her to pieces,” she said.  

The two met about a year ago while dancing and quickly became friends.  

After Wright’s daughter asked to see photos of her mom dancing, Valencia started snapping pictures and texting them to the family.  

“I got her phone number, and I texted her the pictures, so now anytime I get pictures, I text some to her, and we invite her to places we are going to see if she wants to come,” Valencia said.  

Together, they travel to dances in places like Maryville, Easton and Fillmore several times throughout the year.  

For Wright and Valencia, dancing is about much more than exercise. It’s a way to stay connected, express themselves and build friendships. 

And for Wright, every song and every step is another reminder that life is still meant to be enjoyed.